For the Guys
So you think she might be pregnant?
An unplanned pregnancy can leave you both feeling overwhelmed, scared, depressed and upset.
Do you want more information that might help you understand and handle this situation?
Here’s some information that may help you through this…
o Review the 3 steps you need to know from the PREGNANCY SYMPTOMS list.
o Listen to her. The situation involves more than just you.
o Stay calm – don’t panic. She needs your support now more than ever.
o Talk about it. Not only with each other, with your parents and others in your life that you trust to provide support to you both during this time. Hiding the news from people who can help you only makes it tougher.
o Gather all the facts. Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.
o Express yourself honestly. It’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.
o Bring her to InnerVisions HealthCare. You will both receive compassionate, nonjudgmental and confidential services.
Try not to…
o Desert her– That would make it harder for both of you.
o Don’t pressure her -Make sure she knows you support her and that you are a team.
Remember – You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as share your feelings.
The first step to take is to make sure that she is pregnant. InnerVisions HealthCare offers free pregnancy tests, and ultrasounds so you can determine whether or not she is pregnant. Remember you have a very active role in this situation.
Listen to input as well as share your feelings. Call or text us today and our patient advocates can help answer your questions. We also offer STD tests, one-on-one post-abortion help, and education materials on a variety of issues in a confidential environment for both of you.
Text us at 515-783-1286
Email a nurse with your questions and for more information: RNStaff@innervisionshealthcare.org