Learning that your girlfriend is pregnant can be shocking. You might have reacted in a way you regret, this is understandable if emotions are running high. What matters now is what you do next and how you show up to support her.
InnerVisions HealthCare is here to support both of you throughout this pregnancy. We provide no-cost pregnancy testing and ultrasounds to confirm how the pregnancy is developing and can give you accurate information about your options in a non-judgmental environment.
Schedule an appointment today to learn more.
Take Time to Process Your Feelings
Before jumping to conclusions or making any quick decisions, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts. You may be concerned about finances, your future, and whether you are ready to become a father, which is understandable.
Taking time to reflect on what you truly want and what’s concerning you can help you think through possible solutions and approach your next conversation with a clearer head. You may find that writing down your feelings or talking to a trusted family member could help you during this time.
Be There for Her
Your girlfriend is likely feeling the same as you right now, but on top of that, she is also experiencing physical and hormonal changes that come with early pregnancy. Your support during this time can make a meaningful difference.
Reassuring her that she doesn’t have to face this pregnancy alone can mean a lot. Attending appointments with her can also remind her that she has someone she can rely on throughout the pregnancy.
Get the Information You Both Need
Before she makes a pregnancy decision, getting an ultrasound is an important step to protect her health.
An ultrasound will show how far along the pregnancy is, whether a fetal heartbeat is detected, and where the pregnancy is located. These medical details can affect your girlfriend’s health as well as the options available moving forward.
Together, you can learn about the three pregnancy options: parenting, adoption, and abortion.
Parenting can be a big responsibility, but many new and young parents are surprised to learn how many resources are available to help them through this time. Adoption is an alternative if you know you both don’t want to parent. Placing a child for adoption can be very emotional, but nowadays, modern adoption allows you to keep a relationship with your child if you wish to do so.
Lastly, there is abortion. Abortion methods vary according to how far along the pregnancy is. During our options appointments, we will give you the facts about abortion and the risks involved so you can be fully informed.
Find Support at InnerVisions HealthCare
We are here to support both of you throughout this unplanned pregnancy. Whether you’re looking for pregnancy confirmation services, information about your options, or simply a safe place to ask questions, our door is open.
The best thing you can do for your girlfriend during this time is to be a steady shoulder to lean on. Contact us to make an appointment.